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Call to Worship
Good morning, church. Today we light the Advent candle of love. We come as seekers, like the Wise Men, drawn by God’s light and led by His love. This season is more than a feeling it is the mystery of God coming close in Jesus. So come, young and old, with open hearts and willing hands. Let us worship Christ, the greatest gift of love.
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Prayer
Characters of Christmas
The Wise Men
Today's Message: Pastors Marlee Page and Laura Gaffan
We’ve been walking through Advent together: Hope with the Prophets, Peace with the Angels, Joy with the Shepherds. And today, we arrive at the fourth character group: the Wise Men, the givers of love.
Now, when we think of Christmas love, we usually picture the “magic” of the season, the warm feelings, the twinkling lights, the Hallmark glow. But in Scripture, Christmas love isn’t magic. It’s mystery. Mysteries are hard to enter and that is why we spend THE 4 Advent weeks preparing our hearts. A mystery so profound that John begins his Gospel not with a manger scene, not with shepherds or angels, but with this mind-bending statement: “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”
This scripture shows us that Jesus has always existed! God loves us and wants to be in relationship with us, so He sent Jesus to be born as a baby and to live among His people. God showed His love for us by sending Jesus. Jesus is God’s greatest gift to us. Christmas isn’t just sentimental.
It’s supernatural. It’s the revelation of God’s love woven into human flesh. And the Wise Men, these travellers from far away show us how to respond to such love. But before we meet the Wise Men, let’s understand the mystery they bowed before.
THE MYSTERY OF CHRISTMAS LOVE
Christmas isn’t primarily about cozy feelings or holiday cheer. It is about a cosmic truth breaking into human time. Let’s read John 1:1-14 together.
Scripture Reading: John 1:1-14; Matthew 2:1-12
John 1:1-14
The Eternal Word
1 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. 2 He was in the beginning with God. 3 All things were made through Him, and without Him nothing was made that was made. 4 In Him was life, and the life was the light of men. 5 And the light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not comprehend it.
John’s Witness: The True Light
6 There was a man sent from God, whose name was John. 7 This man came for a witness, to bear witness of the Light, that all through him might believe. 8 He was not that Light, but was sent to bear witness of that Light. 9 That was the true Light which gives light to every man coming into the world.
10 He was in the world, and the world was made through Him, and the world did not know Him. 11 He came to His own, and His own did not receive Him. 12 But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name: 13 who were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.
The Word Becomes Flesh
14 And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we beheld His glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father, full of grace and truth.
Matthew 2:1-12
Now after Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea in the days of Herod the king, behold, wise men from the East came to Jerusalem, 2 saying, “Where is He who has been born King of the Jews? For we have seen His star in the East and have come to worship Him.”
3 When Herod the king heard this, he was troubled, and all Jerusalem with him. 4 And when he had gathered all the chief priests and scribes of the people together, he inquired of them where the Christ was to be born.
5 So they said to him, “In Bethlehem of Judea, for thus it is written by the prophet:
6 ‘But you, Bethlehem, in the land of Judah,
Are not the least among the rulers of Judah;
For out of you shall come a Ruler
Who will shepherd My people Israel.’ ”7 Then Herod, when he had secretly called the wise men, determined from them what time the star appeared. 8 And he sent them to Bethlehem and said, “Go and search carefully for the young Child, and when you have found Him, bring back word to me, that I may come and worship Him also.”
9 When they heard the king, they departed; and behold, the star which they had seen in the East went before them, till it came and stood over where the young Child was. 10 When they saw the star, they rejoiced with exceedingly great joy. 11 And when they had come into the house, they saw the young Child with Mary His mother, and fell down and worshiped Him. And when they had opened their treasures, they presented gifts to Him: gold, frankincense, and myrrh.
12 Then, being divinely warned in a dream that they should not return to Herod, they departed for their own country another way.
This is not spiritual poetry. It is a theological shock. John reveals something that the early church struggled to put into words: the Trinity: Father, Son, Spirit, a divine community of love that existed before creation.
As Augustine said: “Love is the inner life of God… the eternal community of Father, Son, and Spirit.” Meaning:
- God didn’t start loving when He made us.
- God didn’t become loving because we needed love.
- God is love — eternally, perfectly, completely, ALWAYS.
And that love…stepped into the world. Into our limitations, our tears, our dust, our flesh. Love put on skin and bone. Love learned to walk. Love cried. Love touched lepers. Love washed feet. Love stretched out His arms on the cross. This is the mystery of Christmas love — God’s love revealed in Jesus, given freely, seeking us, saving us, inviting us into divine fellowship-a friendship with God!
This is God’s gift to us! And the Wise Men, these strangers from far away, recognized something the religious insiders missed. They weren’t Jewish. They weren’t from the chosen people. They weren’t scribes or priests. But they saw the star. They sensed the stirring. They followed the mystery. And when they reached Jesus, they gave Him love.
THE WISE MEN: GIVERS OF LOVE
Let’s now read together the story in Matthew 2:1-12
Before they offered gifts, they offered themselves. They loved by seeking Him. They travelled hundreds of miles. Through deserts. Through danger. Through uncertainty. Love seeks. They loved by surrendering. They bowed down, not before a politician, not before a warrior, but before a toddler in a humble home. Love surrenders.
They loved by giving sacrificially.
- Gold — for a King
- Frankincense — for a God
- Myrrh — for the One who would die.
Their gifts weren’t about extravagance. Their gifts were about meaning. Love gives. And this is why today we light the Love candle. Because love is not a feeling we wait for, it’s a gift we offer.
Advent candle — the Love candle.
As this flame rises, hear the truth it represents: “This is love: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son.” (1 John 4:10) Love starts with God.
Love is revealed in Jesus. Love is received by us. Love is expressed through us. Just as the Wise Men offered their treasures, we are invited to offer ourselves, our obedience, our devotion, our generosity. But how do we live this?
What does it look like to actually give Christ-like love in a world that is tired and divided?
THE LOVE CHRIST CALLS US TO LIVE
Jesus said:
“Love one another as I have loved you.” (John 13:34)
Not love as the world loves, conditional, self-protective, transactional. But love shaped by the Trinity. Love that KNOWS one another. Like the Father, Son, and Spirit know each other deeply. Our first box reminds us of the gold that the wisemen brought.
Gold is a gift for a king. We bring our gold because Jesus is special. Maybe some of us have gold or money, but what if you do not have actual “gold” or money?
Gold reminds us that Jesus is important and God gave us Jesus because we matter. Love is the gold that we can bring! This means slowing down. Listening. Being present. Loving the people right in front of us. Love that SUBMITS to a shared mission.
The NEXT gift the wisemen brought was frankincense. This is a spice that people used and still used today when they pray.
Because of Jesus, we can pray or talk to God anywhere and anytime-when we’re happy, scared, or sad. Jesus is God’s gift who listens. We bring this gift because Jesus helps us know God. Jesus is God’s gift who stays close to us. He is always a thought, a breath, a whisper away.
Just as the Son submits to the Father’s will, and the Spirit glorifies the Son. They work together! This reminds us that we aren’t to each do our own thing. We participate in God’s work together.
Love that SHARES ourselves with each other.
Myrrh was used for healing, like a medicine. This gift reminds us that Jesus knows pain and cares when we are hurt. Jesus understands. Jesus is God’s gift who helps us when things are hard. We can help each other like this.
This is a kind of love that asks us to give too. We get to work with God for each other! This is love that offers:
Myrrh was used for healing, like a medicine. This gift reminds us that Jesus knows pain and cares when we are hurt. Jesus understands. Jesus is God’s gift who helps us when things are hard. We can help each other like this.
This is a kind of love that asks us to give too. We get to work with God for each other!
This is love that offers:
- Ears to listen
- Feet that go and hands to do
- Hearts that feel
- Generosity
- Grace
- Forgiveness
Love that costs something is Love that reveals Jesus Christ.
How can we help when things are hard for other people? How can you bring comfort to others?
As with our previous 3 weeks we want to share a practice with you.
APPLICATION: A LOVE PRACTICE FOR THIS WEEK
Here are three simple ways to practice Christ-like love before Christmas Day:
- Love someone by BEING PRESENT.
Put the phone down.
Look someone in the eyes.
Listen without rushing.
Notice who needs your attention.
- Love someone by BLESSING THEM.
Like the Wise Men, give:
- a word of encouragement
- a small gift
- an act of service
- a message of hope
- a prayer
- Love someone by FORGIVING.
Is there someone you’ve stayed away from? Someone who hurt you? Someone you’ve avoided? Love moves toward people the way Jesus moved toward us. This is hard work, but Jesus is with us always. We are never alone and we can ask Him to make us brave.
Church, this week, let the Wise Men lead you:
- Seek Jesus
- Bow before Him
- Give Him your best
- Share His love generously
Because Christmas isn’t just a season of magic, it is a season of mystery: God’s eternal love revealed in human flesh. Let’s go and love as He has loved us.
Prayer
Loving God, we thank You for the gift of this season and for the mystery of Christmas love. Thank You for loving us first, before we could find the words, before we knew the way, before we had anything to offer in return. Thank You for Jesus, the Word made flesh, who came close and made His home among us. Like the Wise Men, teach us to seek You, even when the journey feels long and the path feels unclear.
Give us hearts that are willing to follow Your light wherever it leads. Teach us to bow before You in worship, to surrender our pride, our plans, and our fears. Help us remember that love is not just something we feel, but something we give. As we light the candle of Love, shape us into people who love like Jesus. Help us notice those who feel forgotten, listen to those who need to be heard, and offer comfort where there is pain.
For those who are hurting today—bring healing.
For those who feel lonely—bring presence.
For those who are tired—bring rest.
For those who are joyful—help them share that joy with others.Take the gifts we bring, our time, our kindness, our forgiveness, our obedience, and use them to reflect Your love in our homes, our church, and our world. Send us from this place guided by Your light, rooted in Your love, and ready to live out the mystery of Christmas each and every day. We pray all of this in the name of Jesus, our greatest gift, our Savior, and our Light.
Amen.
Song
Benediction
Children:
Thank You, God, for Jesus!
Youth:
Help us follow Jesus.
Adults:
Help us share Jesus.
Seniors:
Help us trust Your love.
All Together:
Amen.
