Practicing the Way – A Template for Healing – Sermon – Pastor Dave Page

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Call to Worship

We come this day, rejoicing, in the presence of the King of Kings, Jesus Christ. At his birth the angels proclaimed his name to be Emmanuel, God with us. Today in this place, in this time of worship, may we truly feel the power and presence of Jesus Christ in our lives. May our hearts and spirits be warmed and challenged to proclaim with our lives, “Christ is Lord!”. AMEN.

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CONFESSION

We have trouble believing in a King in our lives. Early in our nation’s history, we rejected monarchy as something undesirable. Yet, this day we are called to recognize Jesus Christ as the King of our lives, our sovereign ruler. His kingdom is based on the laws of love; loving God as God has truly loved us and loving our neighbor as we ourselves want to be loved. That love extends beyond the borders of our lives, into a world in which there is fear and alienation, hunger and disease, hopelessness and darkness. Jesus, our sovereign ruler, our friend, our Master and guide has asked us to reach out to feed the hungry; give drink to the thirsty; clothe the naked, visit the sick and those imprisoned; welcome the stranger. These words are not unfamiliar to us, yet somehow we have treated them as nice words but not an active part of our life of faith. Forgive us, Lord, for the meagerness of our faith and the weakness of our witness. Rule our lives again with your powerful love, that we might truly be worthy disciples of yours. Help us to find the forgiveness which you have given to us and to do your will. AMEN.

ASSURANCE OF FORGIVENESS

Even though we have often failed to do as our Lord Jesus has asked, yet there is eternal forgiveness and a chance to again follow his ways. Be assured, dear friends, that the love of Jesus Christ will never leave you. Be his witnesses throughout the world. AMEN.

Practicing the Way A Template for Healing​

Today's Message: Pastor Dave Page

Have you ever felt stuck in life? Perhaps you’ve made the same mistakes over and over, or you’ve struggled with a sense of spiritual stagnation, longing for change but unable to find your way forward. Imagine a person who has tried countless times to quit a bad habit. They resolve every New Year to do better, and for a while, they might. Inevitably though, the cycle likely repeats. Like the chair we looked at over time, worn down, broken down. The frustration grows. They want to change but don’t know how.

Look at the Apostle Peter, one of Jesus’ closest disciples, as an example of someone who felt stuck in a cycle of failure. Peter was bold and passionate, but he often acted impulsively and out of fear. Simply think about the night of Jesus’ arrest. Despite promising earlier that he would never deny Jesus—even declaring he would die for Him—Peter failed spectacularly. Not once, not twice, but three times, Peter denied knowing Jesus, even cursing to distance himself further (Luke 22:54-62).

After the rooster crowed, Peter realized what he had done, and he went out and wept bitterly. Can you imagine the frustration and guilt he must have felt? He wanted to do better. He resolved to stand by Jesus no matter what, but, in the face of fear and pressure, Peter repeated the same mistakes of self-preservation. He wanted to change but didn’t know how. Peter was a Jew. I wonder if he ever felt the burden that David felt when he wrote the Psalm we started with this morning. In Psalm 51, David confesses his sins to God, holding nothing back. David doesn’t lay blame anywhere but on himself. He makes no attempt to excuse his actions. His words are those of absolute humility and anguish over sin. David appeals to God’s mercy and love, knowing that he can be forgiven.

If you think again of Peter’s story, we recall that it didn’t end in failure. After Jesus’ resurrection, He sought Peter personally. On the shore of the Sea of Galilee, Jesus asked Peter three times, “Do you love me?”—one for each denial. Through this encounter, Jesus forgave and restored Peter, even commissioning him to “feed my sheep” (John 21:15-17). Later, with authority fueled by the Holy Spirit at Pentecost, Peter broke free from his cycle of fear and failure, becoming a powerful leader of the early church.

Peter was that chair. Jesus on the shores of the Sea of Galilee restores Peter and Peter’s journey reminds us that while we may sometimes feel stuck, Jesus offers healing and, as we have been discussing, transformation. The key is to let Jesus into those broken places and trust Him to do the same for us as he did for Peter.

For some of us, this story might feel all too familiar because in one way or another, we’ve all been there. We want to live fully as Jesus promised in John 10:10: I have come that they may have life and have it to the full.” Yet, so often, we find ourselves falling short.

This will be our last message to you in the Practicing the way series and to draw this to a close I want us to explore the two essential elements of transformation that Jesus demonstrates with his apprentices over and over again: healing from sin and a way to live intentionally in alignment with Him. These are the twin themes of today’s message: healing and transformation. You see, true spiritual growth involves addressing the effects of sin in our lives while crafting a rhythm of life that draws us closer to Jesus. These are the essential components of the transformation we’ve been discussing these past weeks.

Segment 1: Healing from Sin

Key Insight: A vital part of our spiritual journey is not just avoiding sin but finding healing from the ways sin has affected us.

1. Understanding the Dimensions of Sin

Comer does an excellent job of helping us to understand the various dimensions of sin and sin’s impact on us. Let’s begin with Romans 7:18-20, where Paul confesses his struggle with sin:

For I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing. Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it.

Paul’s words should resonate deeply with each of us because sin is pervasive, affecting every part of our lives. It operates on three levels:

  • Sin done by us:
    These are the wrongs we commit—acts of selfishness, dishonesty, or unkindness.

I appreciate this acronym that Comer shares – “HPTMTU”—shorthand for “the human propensity to muck things up.” This dimension of Sin is usually the most familiar to us, because it’s of us.

But there are other dimensions of sin that impact us also:

  • Sin done to us:
    the wounds inflicted by others, such as betrayal, abuse, or rejection. Comer says, “Hurt people hurt people,” as the saying goes, and it’s true.” I suspect you’ve had experience with this somewhere as well.

And finally, there’s this third dimension of sin that we don’t necessarily pick up on right away – it’s not so personal as these first two dimensions but it is just as impactful.

  • Sin done around us:
    This is the brokenness of the world—things like systemic injustice, natural disasters, or cultural decay. Comer says, “think breathing secondhand smoke or toxic air—no one would hold you guilty in a court of law, but that doesn’t make it any less lethal.”

Take a moment to consider how these dimensions of sin manifest in your own life. Perhaps you’ve struggled with bitterness caused by the actions of others or felt discouraged by the brokenness in society. Sin is like a web that entangles us, affecting our actions, relationships, and even our worldview. Even in David’s time when he writes this Psalm he knows the power of sin in him and around him

2. The Layers of Sin We Must Address

Psalm 51:3: For I know my transgressions, and my sin is always before me.

The healing process requires us to confront the layers of sin within us:

  • Gross sins are the obvious, outward behaviors like lying, stealing, or harming others.
  • Conscious sins are attitudes or actions we know are wrong but tolerate, such as jealousy or gossip.
  • Unconscious sins are patterns we may not recognize but which harm ourselves and others, like deep-seated pride or prejudice.
  • Attachments are like idols, not always tangible but where we place good things like success, relationships, or comfort above God.

Imagine an iceberg. You know the adage of an iceberg; only a small portion is visible above the surface, but the bulk lies hidden beneath the water. Our sin is like that iceberg. God’s healing requires us to address not only what’s visible but also the deeper, hidden issues.

3. The Practice of Confession

Do you know why we make sure to have a time of confession, brief though it is, each week in this service?

1 John 1:9 reminds us, If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

Yes, it’s to prepare ourselves to receive God’s word, but more broadly, confession is not just about acknowledging guilt. We confess and then receive an assurance of pardon. It’s about receiving grace and experiencing healing. When we confess, we open ourselves to God’s transforming power, allowing Him to cleanse and restore us.

Practical Application:

This week, in your daily time with God, allow space for self-reflection and confession. Ask God to reveal areas of sin, both visible and hidden, and invite His healing presence into those places.

Comer notes, “Few people realize that the Greek word translated “saved” in the New Testament is sōzō—a word that is often translated “healed.” So, in the Gospels, when you read that Jesus “saved” someone and then read that he “healed” someone, you’re often reading the exact same word. The more we hide, the less we heal”.

We said at the outset that were two essential elements of transformation that Jesus demonstrated with his apprentices over and over again: healing from sin and a way to live intentionally in alignment with Him.

Segment 2: Crafting a Rule of Life

Key Insight: Transformation in Christ is possible, but it requires intentionality and planning.

1. Why a Rule of Life?

John 15:4 says, Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me.”

We’ve come full circle back to this quote from Jesus again.

Transformation doesn’t happen automatically. As we’ve already noted, just as a vine must be tended to bear fruit, our spiritual lives need structure and care. The early Christians used the term “Rule of Life” to describe a framework of spiritual practices that helped them stay connected to Jesus. A Rule of Life creates space for us to:

  • Be with Jesus through prayer, worship, and Scripture.
  • Become like Jesus by adopting His character and values.
  • Do as Jesus did by living out His mission in the world.

2. What is a Rule of Life

Comer describes a rule of life as a structured and intentional way of living that helps us grow spiritually and aligns our lives with Jesus’ teachings. Here are the key aspects of how Comer explains a rule of life:

  1. Analogy of a Trellis: He uses the metaphor of a trellis, emphasizing that just as a trellis supports a vine to grow upward and bear fruit, a rule of life supports spiritual growth and helps a person stay connected to God.
  2. Flexibility: Unlike a strict schedule, a rule of life is adaptable. Comer highlights that it should align with a person’s stage of life, personality, and calling while focusing on maintaining balance and intentionality.
  3. Focus on the Practices of Jesus: Comer suggests that a good rule of life should center on emulating Jesus’ way of living—practices like silence, solitude, Sabbath, prayer, community, and simplicity.
  4. Goal-Oriented: The ultimate aim of a rule of life is to foster deeper intimacy with God, form Christlike character, and help individuals participate in God’s mission in the world.

3. How to Craft a Rule of Life

Matthew 11:28-30 invites us to Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” Jesus’ yoke, a symbol of discipline and partnership, is not burdensome, but life-giving.

Here are six tips for crafting a Rule of Life:

  1. Start small
    Focus on one or two simple practices. For example, commit to a daily Scripture reading or evening prayer.
  2. Think subtraction, not addition
    Identify distractions or habits that hinder your spiritual growth, such as excessive screen time.
  3. Take a balanced approach
    Include practices that nurture prayer, rest, work, and relationships.
  4. Consider your personality and season of life
    Make your Rule realistic and adaptable.
  5. Repetition is essential
    Transformation happens through consistent, repeated actions.
  6. Do this in community
    Share your Rule with trusted friends for encouragement and accountability.

Think of your Rule of Life as a trellis for a vine. The trellis doesn’t cause growth, it provides the structure the vine needs to flourish.

3. This Week’s Exercise

This week, take time to prayerfully design a simple Rule of Life. Here are a few examples to consider:

  • Set aside 10 minutes each morning for Scripture reading or prayer.
  • Commit to a weekly Sabbath or time of rest.
  • Limit distractions, such as turning off your phone during family time or prayer.

Practical Application:

Write down one small commitment as part of your Rule of Life and share it with a trusted friend or mentor. Begin practicing it daily, knowing that small, consistent steps lead to lasting transformation.

As we draw this series to an end, I want you to imagine your life as a garden, a sacred space meant to flourish with the beauty of Christ. But like any garden, it cannot grow wild and untended. It needs a trellis. A structure. A Rule of Life. Not a set of burdens or restrictions, but a gentle guide that helps your soul climb toward the light of Jesus. Healing from sin clears the path for transformation, and a Rule of Life provides the structure we need to grow in Christ. Together, they enable us to live the abundant life Jesus promised.

Here’s the challenge, family. We live in a culture that pulls us in every direction except toward Jesus. A culture of hurry, distraction, and anxiety. Comer’s invitation is countercultural, Jesus’ example is just as countercultural now as it was then. The challenge, the invitation, is for you to slow down, to simplify, to reorder your life around the way of Jesus.

Let me ask you: What will your trellis look like? What practices will you or have you already built into your days, your weeks, your months, so that you can remain rooted in Christ?

Whatever it looks like, if you haven’t already, let it start today.
Let it be small, imperfect even.
The goal isn’t perfection; it’s connection.

Remember this: Jesus is with you in every step. He invites you not into striving, but into abiding.
He doesn’t demand your exhaustion; He offers you rest.
He’s not looking for flawless disciples but faithful ones

Philippians 1:6 He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.”

Final Encouragement

Remember, transformation is a journey, not a destination. As you pursue healing and craft a life aligned with Jesus, trust that He is faithful to complete the work He has started in you. Let’s practice the way together.

Prayer

Sovereign Lord Jesus, come into our hearts today and take your reign. Remind us that your Kingdom is a Kingdom of hope and light, in which there is no darkness, fear, or sadness. You have called us to be the Kingdom people, living our lives in the knowledge that peace, justice, and hope are not only possible, but can actually be the ruling factor of the world, for those who follow you. There are many who do not acknowledge your presence and your name, O Lord. But in your infinite love and mercy, you have acknowledged and claimed them. Help us to be the kind of disciples that welcome everyone with the words of kindness, that offer acts of mercy and peace to all in need, to proclaim Christ risen and glorified. As we have brought before you, O Lord, the names of people and situations needing your healing and comforting touch, may we also open our hearts for that same healing and comfort. Remind us that we are never out of your grace and mercy. We know that you will give us the strength and wisdom to be true disciples, and we celebrate and honor you, now and forever. AMEN.

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Benediction

Go now in peace. Bring the good news of God’s eternal love, the peace of our Lord Jesus Christ, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit to all you meet. Go in peace. AMEN.